Relationship Advice?

Question

I am in a relationship, i really like my boyfriend and I wouldn't want to loose him. However, I ran into my ex boyfriend last night with a couple of friends and they convinced me to come back with them to his place for a little while. While we were there, we were just catching up talking about the old days, & now he decides that he wants me back. I told him I have a boyfriend now and he started kissing on my neck and purposely left a huge hickey there so my boyfriend could see it. I was trying to fight it, but hes a lot stronger than I am. After telling him to stop countless times, i got angry and decided to leave 

Today I am suppose to see my boyfriend, & I have this obvious hickey on my neck. Should i just tell him? Should I just not go see him? What should I do?

 

 

Answer 1

Today I saw this question and strange that no one has replied to this question but for curiosity, I would like to know what had you done? Did you tell him or not

Answer 2

It's important to be honest with your boyfriend and tell him what happened. It may be uncomfortable and difficult, but hiding the truth could cause more problems in the long run. Explain what happened and that you tried to stop it, but your ex-boyfriend was too forceful. Be sincere and apologize for any pain this may cause him. It's possible that he may feel hurt, upset, or angry initially, but ultimately, honesty is the best policy in a relationship.

As for whether or not you should go see your boyfriend with the hickey, that is ultimately up to you. If you don't feel comfortable seeing him with the hickey, you could try covering it with makeup or wearing a scarf. However, if you do choose to see him, it's important to be upfront about the situation and explain what happened. Remember that communication and honesty are key in any relationship.